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Alright... So I might be very interested in this Aries male I met last night at an 18-years birthday. I noticed him at the moment I arrived at the party, and we began talking after a few drinks and such, and before we knew it, both his and my friends were leaving and we were left with the rest of the party. So we spent the -entire night- in each others company and talked losely about this and that, but were over-all very entertained with each other, obviously.
After some mild flirting and such, he took initiative and leaned in to rest against me. I love cuddling, so I was fine with that and we ended up entangled in each other, no kissing no nothing, but just enjoying the comfort, I guess.
I obviously enjoyed it.
So when the party ended at 6am we were told to leave with the rest, and since he lives far away, we crashed at my friend's.
Again, nothing intimate happened... Next morning I got him something to eat and such, and we left because my friend had to go to work. At the station I came to think, that it would be awesome to meet him again, so I said. "I want your number" I didn't ask, I demanded it.
And he was like, "allright, sure!" and he gave it to me. So I text messaged him a few hours later so he could get mine.
..... So, now I don't know what to do.
I've read about Pisces / Aries compatibility on the internet, and some say it can be a good match, others don't.
So, does anyone have some personal experience? Advice? Opinions?
I'd really like to know him better, but I just don't know if I should message him and when or if he will get annoyed and such.
D':
I suck, I know...
- The Piscean Girly.
After some mild flirting and such, he took initiative and leaned in to rest against me. I love cuddling, so I was fine with that and we ended up entangled in each other, no kissing no nothing, but just enjoying the comfort, I guess.
I obviously enjoyed it.
So when the party ended at 6am we were told to leave with the rest, and since he lives far away, we crashed at my friend's.
Again, nothing intimate happened... Next morning I got him something to eat and such, and we left because my friend had to go to work. At the station I came to think, that it would be awesome to meet him again, so I said. "I want your number" I didn't ask, I demanded it.
And he was like, "allright, sure!" and he gave it to me. So I text messaged him a few hours later so he could get mine.
..... So, now I don't know what to do.
I've read about Pisces / Aries compatibility on the internet, and some say it can be a good match, others don't.
So, does anyone have some personal experience? Advice? Opinions?
I'd really like to know him better, but I just don't know if I should message him and when or if he will get annoyed and such.
D':
I suck, I know...
- The Piscean Girly.
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Re: Pisces women with Aries men! Opinions, please?!
Sat, October 25, 2008 - 10:45 PMpisceans can love whoever they want to love. -
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Sun, October 26, 2008 - 7:26 AMTrue, but I'm also curious if it would be so the other way as well. ^^ -
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Re: Pisces women with Aries men! Opinions, please?!
Sun, October 26, 2008 - 9:19 AMi am pisces sun, and feel like i am very compatible with aries sun people lately........this is a recent thing tho :) i have recently become close with a friend (male) and he is aries sun and moon all conjunct with venus and mars in the fourth house. i think it depends on the person and how evolved they are......aries excitement is fun for pisces from what i have seen........ -
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Re: Pisces women with Aries men! Opinions, please?!
Sun, October 26, 2008 - 9:51 AMi was just thinking my aries rising probably has something to do with my compatability with aries people too. how much fire is in your chart? what is your moon and rising sign? are either of them a sign ruled by mars? -
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Sun, October 26, 2008 - 4:03 PMOh, I'm not so sure about those things. I have a chart, but I'm not really into reading it yet. xD
You know, it would be easier to show you a picture of my chart thingie, so here goes. =D
Here you go, and thanks for replying.
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Re: Pisces women with Aries men! Opinions, please?!
Sun, October 26, 2008 - 9:55 AMI can't speak for the Piscean ladies, but I can offer that my best friend is an Aries male. He's unflappable. He's impetuous. He's soooo much fun to hang out with, and even though he can go through bouts with depression, he's rarely dull. He's quick tempered, and he and I have gone toe to toe on occasion, but somehow we are able to maintain respect for each other and remain friends.
He's also one of the few people that I know that has just as much imagination as I do, if not more so.
We both delight in the process of creation, be it art or music or whatever... Aries guys can be TONS of fun.
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Re: Pisces women with Aries men! Opinions, please?!
Mon, October 27, 2008 - 12:52 PMAries is my fav fire sign.
Leo wants to be the bonfire at the beach. Come by the bonfire! Look at me! Aren't I more exciting than that ocean.
Sag is a wildfire, going with the wind. Playful and destructive, he passes through and rarely looks back.
Aries - In quiet times, there's nothing quite like light dancing on the water. In not-so-quiet times, his energy says, "lets combine and create steam!" -
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Tue, October 28, 2008 - 12:37 PMAlright, I'm not so sure how I should understand that, but.... thanks, I guess. XD
... I take it as it is possible for Aries and Pisces to combine... and... make.... steam. o_O -
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Wed, October 29, 2008 - 8:03 AMI have Sun in Pisces and Venus in Aries, I'm a walking steam engine! -
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Re: Pisces women with Aries men! Opinions, please?!
Wed, October 29, 2008 - 5:51 PMI got Sun conjunct Mars in the 10th. I am a volcano myself. Blah red rum.
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Re: Pisces women with Aries men! Opinions, please?!
Wed, October 29, 2008 - 5:16 PMI would suspect that Aries would burn Pisces in the long run. Cause Aries can be ruthless from time to time. Overlooking emotional issues.
I personally like Aries, because of there ability to be upfront, and direct. Once your part of the clan.... of Aries... They can be quite giving, and put alot of energy into whatever they are focused on.
If you have Mars/Venus in a Fire sign.... Then it would be a natural attraction. I am a Cancer myself, and I notice that I get along with Leos extremely well. Most Scorpios I seem to run into, have a group of Sagittarius friends. I wonder if that is true with Pisces and Aries? -
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Re: Pisces women with Aries men! Opinions, please?!
Wed, October 29, 2008 - 5:22 PMWell.... Aries teaches Pisces the importance of being a individual self.... After Aries turn poor Pisces into a slave! heheh I don't meet too many stereotypical Aries. Most of them I know are computer geeks. Always in the background. Not really that caught up with attention.
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Thu, October 30, 2008 - 9:05 AMHehe, okay. Awesome reply. Thanks for your time..
... and I don't know anything about his chart, really.. So I guess I'll just have to see where it goes. >.> -
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Thu, October 30, 2008 - 4:39 PMplay it cool furiae, play it cool...you sound pretty firey yourself! Act like you know he's gonna call, convince yourself because you are so worth it doll but give him space... -
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Sat, November 1, 2008 - 7:50 AMNah, I should really forget about it.
We attended a party last night, and he was all over the other women, so...
It pissed me off and he was supposed sleep at my place because his stuff was here...
So, I just wanted to let him be and go home, but I couldn't since he lives too far away and his stuff was at my place..
So... Well, this girl I know of began hitting on him and he was like, hell yeah, etc.
And he got her number and all, and we went home eventually.
So my mother had made a bed for him, but he crashed in mine... annoyingly enough, but I just said whatever.
And well, we just chilled today, watched some TV and stuff, but I really felt like we had nothing to talk about and that he could just fuck the hell off, but I'm still attracted to him, which sucks. So now he's gone and I'm like, urgh!!!
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Re: Pisces women with Aries men! Opinions, please?!
Sat, November 1, 2008 - 8:10 AMIt happens to the best of us!
I have a Pisces friend who has a Virgo Rising, Mars in Scorpio, Venus in Pisces with a Gemini Moon. She tends to attract Aries and Geminis. And it seems with all the Aries she forms this what a bitch view.... And still communicates, and gets into allot of arugements with Aries.... But she is still attracted to them.
She talks really bad about her Aries BF's she has had in the past.... And she is always telling me she is with an Aries again, and even him, she talks bad about! I think she just likes conflict, she does better under pressure anyways. Though with the Aries, it is as if she cannot stand their competition, and need for challenge. -
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Sat, November 1, 2008 - 10:36 AMGah, I've never been attracted to Aries before and I, in general, don't like tham. I have no aries friends... they get on my nerves and I can't stand their energy, I guess.
So I had it coming, unfortunately. >_>
But yah, from now on I'll stick to Taurus or something. They seem to be the only compatible sign for me, anyways.... Long lasting, nice relationships. <3
But Taurus tends to get boooring and, urgh... -
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Re: Pisces women with Aries men! Opinions, please?!
Sat, November 1, 2008 - 1:39 PMI wish I got along with Taureans better! Only Taurus I have ever gotten along with.... Is the Medical Weed Grower at the start that is. It seems that Taurus likes to judge me quickly. We become worse enemies, and then from there best of friends. I did date a Taurus once, it was one of the best relationships that I was in.... But fate would throw a cinder block, and now we live on opposite sides of the country. Now we are like best friends though.... On messenger.
I got my Venus conjuct to the North Node in Taurus. So it is in that sign where I grow to my fullest potential. -
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Re: Pisces women with Aries men! Opinions, please?!
Sat, November 1, 2008 - 2:59 PMAye, I dated a Taurus for almost a year.
But it's weird, 'cause I can't stand Taurus women and sometimes, I can't stand Taurus men...
I guess it's their kind of closed-minded-ness or whatever, and their need to be the best in certain situations, and I find many of them to be arrogant and/or boring, which pisses me off... But strangely enough, like you, I eventually get along with them very well in the end.
My grandfather is Taurus, and we're so different yet we have this awesome bond of sorts.
It's strange.
But I've never been able to (or bothered) to form any kind of relationship with an Aries, really. I just don't find them apealing in any way, except this one! I'm all crazy about him, man, and it sucks! D':
Gemini seems to be head over heels for me, though. It's not mutual. Dated a Gemini once, lasted 3 month 'cause I grew bored.
I always find good friends in Cancer, but my best friend is a Libra, strangely enough. We've been best friend for almost 12 years now, and she's the only Libra I've bothered with ever!
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Sat, November 1, 2008 - 3:37 PMI think I need to get away from the water signs, and try an earth sign. I am a Cancer btw
I got 5 planets in Water, 4 planets in Earth.
I'm with a Scorpio right now..... And its a great relationship but fuck water signs can see each others motives too easy! hehehe My last 3 relationships have been with 2 Scorpios, and a Pisces. Most of my friends seem to be Pisces, and Scorpios. I believe that the heavy water influence make me better at being friends....
Anyways to me friends are like family. And are part of my family at least! I spoil my friends allot more.
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Sat, November 1, 2008 - 3:44 PMLibra is a very confusing sign for me. I wonder if it has to be that being a Cancer, I was conceived when the Sun was in Libra.
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Re: Pisces women with Aries men! Opinions, please?!
Sat, November 1, 2008 - 3:50 PMHehe, I've never really dated another watersign. I think I would go nuts if I did. :b
And, it's funny that you mention it.
We're three best friends.
Me, the Pisces. Him, the Cancer and Her, the Libra.
We go so strangely well together, though when we're all three together the Libra and Cancer tends to claw each other down, and I have to be the one to make them calm down. It's insane, sometimes, but we've never held grudges against each other, and we're generally just awesome the three of us.
Very strange.
Apparently we have so much in common, yet we're so different.
I'm the introvert. Both Libra friend and Cancer friend are outgoing. Cancer friend is EXTREMELY outgoing. (Btw, he just dated a Piscean and it turned out HELLISH!!!)
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Re: Pisces women with Aries men! Opinions, please?!
Sat, November 1, 2008 - 4:08 PMTo me it is I'm bias, and spark of the moment type. I don't understand procrastinating over crap. The one thing that bothers me about Libra is how sneaky they can be. Though there are some things in common.... We are both lazy ! And Cancers seem to get along with everybody like Libra does. Cancer uses humor, and good nature character to achieve that. Libras are fair-minded, and will at least try to see it from many different perspectives. Both are pretty agreeable, and of the Cardinal Signs - Both lead by being indirect. Supposedly Libra and Cancer can work.
Libra is a War sign after all, rules over the house of relationships and open enemy's.
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Sat, November 1, 2008 - 4:19 PM"I am an introvert.... Who covers up with a strong extrovert personality. The extrovert formed to keep some detachment from others."
I can relate to that, however I cover up with a more cynical personality than an extrovert. I observe people closely before I even bother considering if they have any friend-potentiel or the like (just not in this case, obviously) so people who don't know me, thinks I'm arrogant and b*tchy like heck or just silent, shy or boring... But what do they know. ;)
But I don't really see myself as an arse, but I guess I've sort of absorbed the cynical-ness into the real me, a little. I have a hard, VERY hard time with showing voulnerability, which I used to be good at. Strangely enough, those I find it hardest to confide in, are those I hold most dear...
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Fri, December 26, 2008 - 3:23 PMGosh..I felt like I was reading my own words!
"I can relate to that, however I cover up with a more cynical personality than an extrovert. I observe people closely before I even......".....
I just met a girl who is an Aries..and she freakin' rocks! We are best friends and I feel like I've known her forever..and we share alot of the same feelings/thought processes..
My son (whom I adore..but drives me NUTSO) is an Aries (april 2nd)..tenacious beyond belief...an emotional wreck at only 8-yrs old..lol..endless dramatic flair..he's a firecracker.....
Ahhh, fishies and our insecurities....for me, it doesn't matter what sign he is...I'm usually the one being chased because I'm too afraid to do the chasing....( I, too, suck!) -
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Sat, December 27, 2008 - 8:04 PMOk here is my experience with Aries men.
They have ALWAYS been my best friends!!!
For the most part always very attracted to eachother (*except 1 or 2 on my side thet're always attracted to me though) but never crossed the lines and I am thankful for that.
Currently even my new closest guy friend is an Aries. We are very attracted to eachother but we like and respect eachother so much we don't want to lose it because even as he said to me was, "I'm as good for him as he is for me" I think we are finding each other a lot of fun, we boost each others egos but still keep each other very grounded. It's a nice mix but we and I think you should (and I only say this because it sounds so similar but take it or leave it) have to be careful not to confuse that connection and attraction into a romantic relationship.
It sounds like you 2 could be best friends, and honestly pretty much all of my guy best friends have been Aries and I always have one in my life. They keep me sane and pretty well balanced. they understand our needy/clingy side (that sometimes by other men in general is mistaken for being "psycho") or when I and everyone else around me feels and thinks I'm going crazy, he (and all of them) reassure me and tell me it's ok and allow me to be that and then brings me back down to normalcy so I never feel completely insane! However they have told me when I was being stupid or insane, but they always stayed by my side through it all!!!
They all have been thr TRUEST friends I have EVER had!!!!
Here's the thing for me, if I don't have that 1 aries male best friend I seem lost and do a lot of stupid stuff (one of my childhood aries male BF pointed out) I start doing stuff I would've never done before to compensate I guess at least that was his theory. I didn't really believe it or realize it until I've been in SF for 3 years now did all of that until now I found my new male Aries BF. Now things feel normal again, I feel balanced!
Funny thing is he's broken by a piscean woman, also, Allan, he's kind of a computer geek as all of the ones I'm close to are as well.
Anyway, that's my personal experience hope it helps.!
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Re: Pisces women with Aries men! Opinions, please?!
Thu, December 25, 2008 - 1:40 AMI def. feel u on that.
it seems like most of the men i end falling for lately are Aries.
I think this could have something to do my Aries rising.
Ive had 3 men all born on April 12
& a Capricorn i feel for w/ moon in Aries.
I still don't understand this attraction.
Im not the jealous type but they can take me there.
They get on my nerves so why do i feel for them so much
& feel a deeper connection than w/ men of other signs?
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Re: Pisces women with Aries men! Opinions, please?!
Tue, June 9, 2009 - 4:05 PMComing from a Pisces woman: Run away fast!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Why, you ask? Bad, no very bad sex, even worse communication, a partner who's an attention whore, who's completely one dimensional emotionally and who just doesn't "get" you. The initial attraction can be strong but trust me it wears out fast. We're meant for better things in life. Believe me I know this from experience! -
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Wed, June 10, 2009 - 11:47 AMya well speaking from experience, it aint anything good
maybe a friendship either can learn from the other but that's pretty much it
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Sat, July 4, 2009 - 12:11 PMI *may* have to agree.... was crushing on an aries from a distance for a period of years (off & on). He finally came to visit, we spent a week together & at the end of that week I was *exhausted* ~ an attention whore indeed. Sweet, well-meaning, attractive... but not able to see too far past his own mental prism.
I'm still not sure... part of me wants to think it's just a developmental phase with this particular guy ~ ie: he's starting to deal with a lot of previously-undealt-with family issues ~ & I could sense some water in his chart somewhere. But at the same time I do relate to the sense behind your statement: "we're meant for better things in life" I had that same literal thought when he left. My dad is an aries too, so... not to get too freudian, but... maybe that had something to do with my initial attraction at least. Felt like there was something 'karmic' there. He had a comforting/familiar energy on some level. I do appreciate his dynamism & directness.
But Aries may indeed be too self-absorbed in the long run. I am a subtle person in a lot of ways (lots of reserved earth in my chart, & impressionistic pisces in mercury)... much as I love action & adventure... I need someone who can slow down & pay attention... pick up on & appreciate my nuances.
That's just me though - ! :)
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Sat, July 4, 2009 - 4:53 PMAgree agree agree as well, Melanie. I stayed in that relationship for 2 years wasting "our" time actually ( cause he wasn't fulfilled either ). I will say that I agree that there was some sort of karmic thing between us. And yes he was definitely masculine which I liked initially but the thing was he was masculine in a very shallow way. I really don't know how to describe it otherwise.He was definitely authoritative but when I needed him emotionally he wasn't quite the "rock" I had hoped he was. There were good things about him though but in the end they weren't enough to outweigh the differences. Good luck with your Aries, I mean I know I sound negative but every relationship is different in the end.
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Re: Pisces women with Aries men! Opinions, please?!
Sun, July 5, 2009 - 11:46 PMyou know, as much as I love astrology you read so much about compatible and incompatible signs........ yeah pisces and aries are side by side and as a rule they shouldnt be a great match but I've included a few examples of people who also "shouldnt" be compatible yet have been together years; maybe that will give you hope!!
Gavin Rossdale & Gwen Stefani (Scorpio and Libra together 14 years and 2 kids)
David and Victoria Beckham (Taurus and Aries together 10 years and 3 kids)
Jada Pinkett Smith & Will Smith (Virgo and Libra)
Sarah Michelle Gellar & Freddie Prinze Jr (Aries and Pisces....so far so good)
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Mon, July 6, 2009 - 5:40 AMthing is emma - who knows how those couples REALLY get along in REAL LIFE ... ya know ?
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Mon, July 6, 2009 - 11:17 AMPoint taken, SynerGy.....
But you know I think the same rule could be applied to any couple regardless of whether they're a celebrity or not. It's the "what goes on behind closed doors" saying. I can think of so many couples I "know" - some are compatible astrologically, some aren't . My point is this; I'm not a permenant fly on their wall so how would I know how they're "really" getting on?
And surely to the celebrity their life is very much "real", granted it's lived out under an intense media glare - but it's still THEIR reality.
In addition, I'm sure you may have experienced a couple (friends, family, whatever) who "seem" to be getting on well and then suddenly separate or break up....... "But they seemed sooo happy....." (God knows I have)
Going back to my original post I wanted to give the questioner some examples of people who are still together - seemingly successfully. Everyone's heard of the people I've mentioned but she wont have heard of my auntie (sagittarius) and uncle (scorpio) who have been married 35 years, can you understand my point, SynerGy?
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Mon, July 6, 2009 - 2:02 PMEmma: You have a point, definitely. However I didn't say that what has been my experience is the ultimate truth about this combo. Let me explain further.
It's not that I'm saying that a relationship is impossible if the sun-signs aren't traditionally incompatible, it's just that I wanted to be honest about my experiences with Aries. They're just not for me and in the post above I explained why. Now I have had one long term relationship with an Aries and I have had a lot of friends who were Aries so I'm not basing my opinion on just one person or relationship. Having said that this, I still want to stress that everybody is different and other factors in astrology other than sun-sign can determine compatibility. So by no means are all Aries/Pisces relationship a no-go area. It's just that based on my personal experience Aries/Pisces (as in a romantic relationship) is a no-go for me.
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