When I go "disappear" it's only because I seek solitude and not to skirt off with other people. I love my private time and need it.

Sun Pisces
Venus Pisces
True Node Pisces

Thank you for your advice. I thought I was back to square one again with him. It drove me insane these last 48 hours. It was really sweet of him that he still cared and wanted to try again, kind of got my hopes up high, again. I don't know what it is, maybe its his Taurus moon with my Scorpio moon that draws us in together like moths to a flame or maybe its my rising pisces that meshes with his sun in pisces. I don't know exactly, but it just feels good with him, even after all the heart ache....

You have strong positive sun Aries and gemini mars , so he will follow your lead.Don;t let all the water in his chart put out your fire. Be firm, remind him that you live his soul, but some of his behavior makes you think he doesn't care and makes it too complicated to feel the love he has for you. .Let him know you need him to show that your feelings are important. Give him an example of how . Have confidence and tell him how you feel and what you need from him, one thing at at time.. You might try putting this in a short love poem that you read to him, hand it to him in writing six months later.
With all that piscies energy flowing, if he is really into you, his insecurities may show-up as periodic aloofness, strength in passivity, needing more earth to contain. He may need more earthiness, someting to give safe boundaries in which his physical love can feel safe to express and expand. How many earth signs do you have in your chart? and where is your Saturn and Pluto? ..

My first big love was my High School sweetheart Aries woman. She rocked my world. We were young and didn't know what we wanted from life. She was an over achiever and extrovert model type. I was a slacker geek boy with rock star aspirations, we didn't really belong together but the sex was WOWOWOWOWOW. I have Venus in Aries and have a terminal weakness for Aries women.

If you connected on the deepest levels with your Pisces man, he'll always give you free rent in his soul. I know I do.

Aries and pisces are a difficult combination. My boyfriend is an aries sun, cancer rising- so he understands my watery ways- and as I have an aries rising- I can understand him, too.

It's a very, very hot combination when it works- but if this guy is too much pisces, it just seems like he'll leave you frustrated and confused. He'll be too wishy washy.

I'd let him go, and try to move on. He's obviously in need of someone to control him or keep him in line more than you're willing to (and I don't blame you- I doubt it would be very healthy for him)- and you need more structure than just the occasional romance and attention whenever he feels like it.

Find yourself someone with a water sign, but with an earth ascendant or moon to ground it a little. Otherwise, you'll just fall into the pattern of being confused by him all over again.

I know this is an older post but I had to comment as I have an almost identical chart to your boyfriend.......(all except venus, i have that in an different sign) and if he's anything like me all I can say is i have an almost insatiable need for headspace and time alone. My advice? let him disappear, dont chase him that'll make him run faster, trust me if he wants to be with you he'll be with you. The more pressure you put on the more he runs. Turn the tables, move on without him it may help him to come to his senses, see what he's missing. But to be honest he sounds like a very weak character to just keep "disappearing" on you and I personally wouldnt do that to someone. it's frustrating for you and it just wastes your time and energy.
So if I were you I'd carry on as normal and just assume he's out of your life. If he comes back....well that's your call but I'd send him packing. Invest your energy in someone who wont just bail when the mood takes them x