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How faithful are Pisces?

topic posted Fri, February 26, 2010 - 10:26 AM by  AK
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Some astrological websites I visited stated that Pisces are a slippery lot who cheat on their partners. Others say that Pisces are 1 of the most faithful & devoted signs. So which is which?

Rgds,
AK
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  • Well AK seeing as how we're both Pisces we should be able to be a bit candid with one another. I have yet to cheat on a girlfriend. All depends on the Pisces really
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      Hello Brandon!

      That's great to know! I've read 1 forum post after another bashing Pisces men because they're cheats, they disappear without a trace or so much as a goodbye, they leech onto their women & suck them dry, etc. I was horrified!!! Been with 2 Pisces guys before. Erm, the connection didn't seem to be there somehow & somehow it did happen. They just left!!! I've had better luck with other signs *laughs*

      Maybe you're 1 of the rare faithful guy Pisces breeds :P

      AK
      • pisceans form empathetic fondness for anyone that they don't for some reason reject altogether. it only follows that there will be a higher probability of wandering, at least emotionally, if not physically.
        i personally confess nothing in that regard (scorpio rising)
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    I am a Pisces and have never cheated on a boyfriend or my now ex spouse. I would never dream of it actually. My exhubby is a Pisces and talk about a slippery little cheat! But I don't think that had much to do about his sign as much as his culture and upbringing.
  • well im far from that, i could never imagine not being faithful, usually when a pisces is devoted they stay devoted, we also usually treat others the way we want to be treated. i suppose like any other human being a pisces may cheat if they are unhappy.
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    Cannot speak for other Pisces, but for me, I definetely have been faithful and I believe that faithfulness really depends on the man himself and how he was raised and not his sign
  • AK
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    Wow, thanks all for your responses! Sorry if I appear to be inactive; we're in different time zones.

    Well, the astrologers say that the Pisces connection with another Pisces is extremely strong because it's like dating another version of themselves. They couldn't be more wrong. My Pisces exes were extremely unfaithful, & there's 1 who continues to silently watch my profile in a social website - not coming forward to speak to me, not approaching, but just watching from afar. It's quite unnerving.

    I've had better experiences with other signs such as Aries & even Libra - notoriously flirtatious signs - which contradicts what is generally said, that our personalities are influenced by our signs.

    Being Pisces myself, I prefer to end things if a relationship doesn't make me happy anymore, rather than being stuck in it & eventually straying.

    Rgds,
    AK
  • I've always hated that term "cheating" as describing love affairs. Love comes at its own bequest. What we decide to DO about it is an individual choice. Is it possible to be "in love" with 2 different people at the same time--yes. For one who believes in Reincarnation, this could be because one WAS lovers or even partners with the second person in a past life and still loves them. Is that so bad?

    No, nothing is bad if one is completely honest about it. Offer your love to God or Goddess, and He or She will help you handle it in a way that is positive for all.

    Remember, physical love can be fleeting, and sometimes, quite dangerous. I have learned to love from the Heart. And I have learned to use that "falling in love" feeling as an inspiration for Creativity. One's "Muse" can inspire a myriad of creative wonderments!!!
    • thank you maggie

      and moving on, i wonder if many in the majority here who simply rule out sexual infidelity also have similar feelings about emotional infidelity.
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        "i wonder if many in the majority here who simply rule out sexual infidelity also have similar feelings about emotional infidelity"

        I think that's a really good point, I'd also be very interested to hear people's responses to that.
        • I think emotional infidelity is worse or more hurtful then sexual infidelity, because I do believe that sometimes sex is just that, sex...nothing attached, just merely for the sake of feeling good. If a person begins to cheat with their heart and words, it is way deeper and means more!
  • Some things have nothing to do with astrology. Insight into innate abilities and tendencies are what we use astrology for. It's my opinion that this is not even an appropriate question to ask. Astrology isn't an excuse to stop using your brain. Aloha, Kahuna Lamaku.
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      "It's my opinion that this is not even an appropriate question to ask."

      Yeah so what? if you dont like the question then dont answer it, dont cut someone down for posting it. I think it's a perfectly valid question.

      "Astrology isn't an excuse to stop using your brain".

      Wow, what can I say, that's profound.....I mean, really.......profound....
      • agreed

        I have someone who constantly labels us cause we're both pisces and sometimes it's so far off the mark -

        it's not a question of "is pisces" or not - childhood, environment, values, upbringing, the friends ya hang with, personality, all that goes into it too.

        Astrology is NOT an excuse - perhaps a way for us to individually understand aspects of ourselves...that's hard enough - understanding people? good luck.

        that said - my 2 cent on pisces? we prefer to by loyal and want the same - but, wronged, we can go the other way - duality.

        not a question of pisces - more - why don't you trust this person? perhaps..my guess.

        much love
        ~R
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    Hmm...maybe "cheating" isn't the right word. Maybe they are just hard to catch? They're original ruler was Jupiter so I can understand the wandering eye thing, but cheating....never knew a Pisces that did that. But. there are always exceptions.
  • I usually see my relationships down to the bitter end. I'll hang in there if I love her. I've been through some extraordinary circumstances with some of my relationships, circumstances that would have made most men run screaming in the opposite direction. But if I love her, I'll stick by her regardless.

    I must admit though, once I see the end coming and the relationship starts to break apart, I can wander. I may be stupid in love, but I'm not crazy. I love myself first and foremost. If my needs aren't being met, I will look elsewhere.
  • very faithful.

    Don't forget again alot depends on their individual charts. The "slippery-ness" comes more that we're difficult to nail down in a relationship but not because we're aloof.
    • What Steve said, what Maggie said, what Ron said, what Coco said. We're all just playing roles in each others' dramas anyway trying to work shit out. From that perspective the 'faithful one' and the 'cheater' need each other - they're in it together. I mean ever noticed how patterns tend to repeat? Honesty is definitely the best policy, honesty with ourselves first and foremost!
  • AK
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    Thanks all for your insightful replies.

    To those who think this is not an appropriate question to ask, well, then by the same logic, one shouldn't even discuss about astrology at all, since your psyche & personality are shaped by a whole lotta factors, such as your family, your upbringing, friends, teachers & so forth. What I'm asking is the astrological side of things, what happens generally, etc.

    To those who've given their 2 cents' nonetheless, I thank you again. It's interesting to hear things from both the lady & gentleman Pisces, & to know my sign better. I suppose it's because I haven't had that great an experience with the male counterpart, relationships-wise. But I'm glad to know perhaps I met the minority.

    *grins*

    Rgds,
    AK
  • well pisces are generally pulled in two different directions right? idk if this might have anything to do with them cheating but yeah. i personally have never cheated and could not imagine wanting to cheat, but my mom who is also a pisces cheated on my dad (a capricorn) a lot.
    • AK
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      Hello there Jessica, & thanks for your reply. So sorry for taking so long to revert.

      What you've said about your mum cheating is kinda new, coz the negative things I've read have more to do with the guys. From my experience, they're quite flirtatious & have issues of their own, but they can also be the most magical & loving partners. It's truly strange. I've not heard of women Pisces cheating that often, although we're also supposed to flirt the way people breathe air :P

      They say Pisces is the sign that gets bored the most easily outta all the signs, & Capricorns are Earth signs, so they can remain rather fixed. Boring to a Pisces, perhaps? I hope your parents managed to work things out.

      AK
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    I'm pisces guy and I would say it has nothing to do with the zodiac. I personally get very uncomfortable when I even hear stories of cheating etc. I'm sure it is a psychological issue and depends on the persons upbringing and their personal value system and what they find acceptable. I have definitely fallen out of love before, but I would rather end a relationship rather than cheat inside a bad relationship. Well, I have not been in a decade-long relationship before and I don't know how things could possibly change after 10-20 year relationship, but still...I think I'd go by the same principle even then. I definitely notice attractive women on the street, even if I am in a relationship, but that's about it.

    I have another friend, who's also a pisces and he does cheat on his long-time girlfriend. But it has nothing to do with his star sign. It's his own decision and maybe he's seeking constant confirmation or excitement/danger... I don't know... I see people of all star signs cheat too. Men and women alike. The ones who don't, just have a different value system and they don't need the constant outside confirmation I guess...

    I think it depends much more on the upbringing and personal value system that will define person's behavior.

    My two-three cents :)
  • I am a Pisces and I have never cheated on any of the men I've been with. If I ever wanted someone else I would end the relationship and leave the person behind, I wouldn't keep playing games like that. I wouldn't want it done to me.

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