pisces and pisces relationship

topic posted Tue, September 29, 2009 - 6:15 PM by  offlineBrandon
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so this has likely been posted already on here, but why do so few pisces/pisces relationships rarely go the distance? and why does it seem pisces and cancer always run into snags? personal experience
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Brandon
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  • Re: pisces and pisces relationship

    Wed, September 30, 2009 - 7:06 PM
    I think Spark-a hit the nail on the head. Pisces with Pisces is like looking into a mirror. Put 2 sensitive people together and things can get difficult around the powerful emotions that are brought up during a relationship. For some reason, my relationships with Pisces women have always brought out the worst parts of my Pisces nature. Or perhaps I saw the worst parts of myself in her...

    Makes me sad because I've fallen for some wonderful Pisces women, only to have things not work out...
  • Re: pisces and pisces relationship

    Thu, October 1, 2009 - 9:04 PM
    Pffffff (my frustration with the Pisces I know)......In theory I understand the Pisces-Pisces relationship. I love the intensity and the closeness, but with the Pisces I know, he's stubborn. He's really stubborn,and that makes it hard. And I dont feel like I'm getting anything in return. So we've "parted ways". I'm not being light on the subject, believe me, if I knew, I would totally share. All I can say is when I'm with that person, I feel safe, they GET me which is really weird, like I've met my equal - but on the other side of the coin, I've also met my match. For a Pisces he's very masculine, but he's so sensitive, it's a very active current beneath the surface, I hear it like water roaring, but he never lets me see it. When he does show it, it's like showing me a glass of water in the middle of the night with the lights out. I know its there, but I cant see it.

    It's taught me patience, definitely. And as passionate as it gets, he would be my first choice.
  • Re: pisces and pisces relationship

    Fri, October 2, 2009 - 8:51 AM
    My long term relationship with a Pisces ended quite dramatically a few years back. Dramatically for him, sadly. The best way I could describe it would be, I could be wrong about this as I have no experience, like being in a lesbian relationship... and not being a lesbian.

    He was (still is) a most wonderful guy. Sweet, loving, attentive (would always fold my laundry), romantic, patient, understanding - pretty much 1/2 to 3/4 of everything I needed in a man. We were both looking to the other to lead and reluctantly I would do end up doing it a lot of the time. We just didn't bring out each other's strengths when the going was rough and i didn't feel like I could lean on him enough. I have gone through a lot since then, and maybe have discovered more of my own strength now, I now know how to lead when I have to - perhaps a relationship like that could work when both parties have been through sufficient experiences that strengthen them as individuals.

    I just know, at the time there was not sufficient growth and we definitely did reach a stagnation point.
    • Re: pisces and pisces relationship

      Fri, October 2, 2009 - 4:03 PM
      "The best way I could describe it would be, I could be wrong about this as I have no experience, like being in a lesbian relationship... and not being a lesbian."

      lol That's a good way of putting it :) I usually describe how I feel when I'm talking to another Pisces is that i feel like I'm talking to my brother because we're so much alike in a lot of ways. I feel like we're too much alike and like we probably have a lot of the same 'weaknesses', so I think it would be hard for me to be in a relationship with a Pisces guy. Of course that's generalizing though, I might not feel that way with all Pisces men.
      • Re: pisces and pisces relationship

        Fri, October 2, 2009 - 6:05 PM
        Heather and Em ski's reaction is a common one. It's strange how when I meet someone who is "sensitive" and "open" the way I am, I'm put off initially. How on Earth could this person be as open and sensitive as I am?

        But as usual all of the fun Piscean stuff is deep below the surface.

        Take that cute little "sensitive" Pisces lady into a dark corner, then kiss her until she is ready to fall down, and you will see a whole other side of her that didn't show up at the surface.

        Could it be that Pisces women see themselves as weak, and look for a partner who isn't "weak" the same way they are? I've made the mistake of assuming that a Pisces woman was weak. Boy was I wrong... Piscean women have incredible inner strength. It doesn't show in their gentle outer self ways, but when the chips are down that Pisces woman will come swooping in to help you if she can. She will save your ass when you least expect it.

        I speak from years of personal experience with Pisces women.
  • Re: pisces and pisces relationship

    Sat, October 3, 2009 - 2:01 PM
    Previous quote: "I usually describe how I feel when I'm talking to another Pisces is that i feel like I'm talking to my brother because we're so much alike in a lot of ways. I feel like we're too much alike and like we probably have a lot of the same 'weaknesses', so I think it would be hard for me to be in a relationship with a Pisces guy. Of course that's generalizing though, I might not feel that way with all Pisces men" End of Quote.

    Oi. It just hit me, but its been said before.

    When with my Pisces man, with him I feel safe, loved, secure, the passion, the strong undercurrent. On the other side of the coin, the negative side that we can't deal with, aren't we then seeing a reflection of ourselves in the other person? Maybe that explains why there is so much hurt and casting away of one another in the Pisces-Pisces relationship....we dont like it when we see the reflection of our negative emotions. Instead of raising ourselves to a higher vibration and working on ourselves for balance (we need negative emotions, combined with positve emotions is a balance, that we must learn to balance), we cast aside our Piscean lovers because "its too much". IT takes away the mirror. And its easier to throw away the mirror (the one we love), then it is to work on ourselves.

    Its just a theory, but its been said before.
    • Re: pisces and pisces relationship

      Sat, October 3, 2009 - 6:09 PM
      i still think of all the water signs, i prefer pisces women. and besides, don't we pisces have a thing for suffering and giving of ourselves. if it's challenging, we of all people should be able to hang and work through whatever problems we come across. I haven't had much experience with any other signs aside from libra, so i can't totally compare and contrast. but pisces women really seem to touch upon something within me that most other girls work to find
      • Re: pisces and pisces relationship

        Sun, October 4, 2009 - 9:44 AM
        It's a Pisces curse/blessing to see right through people. I can tell when someone is being sincere or is filling me with BS. Pisces in general like to keep a bit of mystery to themselves, but in a Pisces + Pisces relationship there are no mysteries. Pisces women drill down into your soul and psyche like an oil derrick. They know when you are holding something back, and can see right through your BS. Part of me loved that aspect of the Pisces + Pisces. Another part of me felt like I was defenseless and couldn't keep anything to myself.

        She would always sense if something was wrong and would want to know what it was. I've been with women who wanted to know what was on my mind, but Pisces women need to know. They feel shut out if you don't share everything with them. Most of them demand 100% emotional communication, which can be draining to emotional creatures such as Pisces males.

        I find it difficult to bare my soul so completely at times.

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