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From what I've read, pisces as a group, nevermind your other planets, like to know where things are "going " relationship wise, right ? ( or wrong ? )
Granted yea individual planets skew things a bit per person, details need to be applied to the universe but in general as a pisces, how do you figure out to dump a relationship barring that everything else is going well except, you have no idea if the other is serious or ever plans to be ? I mean, we are supposed to have a great track record for picking the wrong ones, right ? ( ok so far in my case, that's correct unfortunately)
Well that's pretty much the question. Post if you have more than just the pisces sun. I'gve got pisces in 3 areas, but the majors would be my sun and asc
Granted yea individual planets skew things a bit per person, details need to be applied to the universe but in general as a pisces, how do you figure out to dump a relationship barring that everything else is going well except, you have no idea if the other is serious or ever plans to be ? I mean, we are supposed to have a great track record for picking the wrong ones, right ? ( ok so far in my case, that's correct unfortunately)
Well that's pretty much the question. Post if you have more than just the pisces sun. I'gve got pisces in 3 areas, but the majors would be my sun and asc
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Re: For Pisces, specifically, How long as a pisces will you stick with a relationship before you decide to dump it cuz it's going nowhere ? Mention if you have at least 2 pisces influenced in your ch
Sat, June 27, 2009 - 12:35 AMSticking it out would mean staying with someone knowing it was not going to lead to marriage. When I was in my early twenties that would have been just over 7 years. In my 30's not about to turn 40 I only wait a day or so to perhaps a few months. I don't bother wasting time.
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Re: For Pisces, specifically, How long as a pisces will you stick with a relationship before you decide to dump it cuz it's going nowhere ? Mention if you have at least 2 pisces influenced in your ch
Sat, June 27, 2009 - 5:30 AMStrange but may be you find the same like i break up with a guy really nice and all but he never seems to want to let me go...its like they stalk and stalk and wont just go "oh ok its over letme move on".
Do the pisces girls and guys too :D find this as well? May be were just too nice?
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Re: For Pisces, specifically, How long as a pisces will you stick with a relationship before you decide to dump it cuz it's going nowhere ? Mention if you have at least 2 pisces influenced in your ch
Fri, July 3, 2009 - 10:56 AMyeah, finally cut it off for good this time
(triple pisces)
ever have a gemini tell you your intuition is WRONG!!! ?
OUCH - And, for a moment - well, actually - for months I believed her - never will I allow myself to be manipulated by the deceit and betrayal they're known for.
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Re: For Pisces, specifically, How long as a pisces will you stick with a relationship before you decide to dump it cuz it's going nowhere ? Mention if you have at least 2 pisces influenced in your ch
Sat, June 27, 2009 - 8:49 AMI find that I tend to stay in a relationship waaaaaaaay too long after I know the relationship might not make it. I'll hang in there till the bitter end and try to salvage in any way I can. Sometimes the salvage operation can last longer than the relationship for me. It's mostly my own pride that keeps me hanging in there, and my Cancer rising influence makes me cling and not want to let go.
I've said this a few other times in this tribe, but I'm going to say it again.
One of the toughest life lessons I've learned as a Pisces Sun guy is that you have to learn when to let go. Pride over not "failing" to maintain a relationship is NOT a good reason to stay in a less than fulfilling relationship. I'm slowly getting better at letting go, and I've had TONS of practice doing so over the past 3 years or so.
What is it about being a Pisces that makes you give and give and give till you can't possibly give any more. Then give it some more...
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Re: For Pisces, specifically, How long as a pisces will you stick with a relationship before you decide to dump it cuz it's going nowhere ? Mention if you have at least 2 pisces influenced in your ch
Sat, June 27, 2009 - 9:04 AMIn my first long term relationship- I stayed too long, but learned alot. I was the dumper and with a Leo, too. In the relationships since I feel I have done a pretty good job of seeing it was leading no where...It was difficult to do because the idea of love is so beautiful, but that's not the pay off so...
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Re: For Pisces, specifically, How long as a pisces will you stick with a relationship before you decide to dump it cuz it's going nowhere ? Mention if you have at least 2 pisces influenced in your ch
Sat, June 27, 2009 - 3:30 PMI'm a pisces (sun the rest unknown) and for me it's not a question of how long I will stay before I decide it's going somewhere or not. It's more a question of wether a relationship can wether storms. If I get disappointed too many times I end it, but to be honest the first major blow usually ends it all together. I decide wether a relationship is worthy or not based upon wether it does or doesn't measure up to my standards on love.
It relies on wether I (am able to detect) signs of deceit or selfishness. This will usually then alienate me from that person altogether causing me to drift away. So it's not a matter of time it's more a test of true love and this can take from a day up to years. But to be honest I've had a major lesson in my first relationship that has taught me to be like this. I don't know if this is how other Pisces evaluate relationships!
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Re: For Pisces, specifically, How long as a pisces will you stick with a relationship before you decide to dump it cuz it's going nowhere ? Mention if you have at least 2 pisces influenced in your ch
Sat, June 27, 2009 - 3:44 PMI swim away pretty fast now, but tend to get heartbroken over some men that I hardly know lol even if I didn't even establish much of a relationship and ended it myself.
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Re: For Pisces, specifically, How long as a pisces will you stick with a relationship before you decide to dump it cuz it's going nowhere ? Mention if you have at least 2 pisces influenced in your ch
Sat, June 27, 2009 - 3:46 PM"I'm a pisces (sun the rest unknown) and for me it's not a question of how long I will stay before I decide it's going somewhere or not. It's more a question of wether a relationship can wether storms. If I get disappointed too many times I end it, but to be honest the first major blow usually ends it all together. I decide wether a relationship is worthy or not based upon wether it does or doesn't measure up to my standards on love."
That's pretty much how I am too, and I'm a Pisces Sun, Mercury and Venus. And it depends on how much I'm in love and how 'attached' I feel to the person. But if they have 'caught' me to begin with, (which is a very hard thing to do lol since I can only really fall for a guy if I feel a connection with them), then chances are I will put up with a lot and even allow them to put me through a lot of pain before I want to break up =/ -
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Re: For Pisces, specifically, How long as a pisces will you stick with a relationship before you decide to dump it cuz it's going nowhere ? Mention if you have at least 2 pisces influenced in your ch
Sat, June 27, 2009 - 5:09 PMI know and having said that pain is relative. I mean I can handle pain and drama, I mean I'm I a Pisces. So yeah I can take shit from a guy. But when he's betrayed me I mean really really betrayed there's no going back. And again this can occur in the beginning of a relationship but as well as 10 years down the road. It's a matter of the other person showing their true colors. -
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Re: For Pisces, specifically, How long as a pisces will you stick with a relationship before you decide to dump it cuz it's going nowhere ? Mention if you have at least 2 pisces influenced in your ch
Sat, June 27, 2009 - 5:13 PMOh I forgot to mention the last comment was a reply to Heather's comment -
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Re: For Pisces, specifically, How long as a pisces will you stick with a relationship before you decide to dump it cuz it's going nowhere ? Mention if you have at least 2 pisces influenced in your ch
Sat, June 27, 2009 - 5:15 PMOh and BTW I'm sorry I forgot to read the original tread closely I only know that my Pisces is my sunsign! So sorry for posting! -
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Re: For Pisces, specifically, How long as a pisces will you stick with a relationship before you decide to dump it cuz it's going nowhere ? Mention if you have at least 2 pisces influenced in your ch
Sat, June 27, 2009 - 5:24 PMknowing your birthday alone will pretty much tell you your planets so you can find out your Sun, Moon, Mercury, Venus and Mars... You just won't be able to know your houses and what not if you don't know the time or your rising.
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Re: For Pisces, specifically, How long as a pisces will you stick with a relationship before you decide to dump it cuz it's going nowhere ? Mention if you have at least 2 pisces influenced in your ch
Sat, June 27, 2009 - 6:21 PMThanks piglet I'll do just that!
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Re: For Pisces, specifically, How long as a pisces will you stick with a relationship before you decide to dump it cuz it's going nowhere ? Mention if you have at least 2 pisces influenced in your ch
Sat, June 27, 2009 - 6:39 PMWell thanks to you dear SecSip I now know I'm a Pisces Sun, Capricorn Moon and Cancer (aaaaaaaaaah) Ascendent. I don't know my time or if it was recorded by someone, but I think I'm going to have a indepth reading done at some point (if I can get my precise time) cause from the stuff I read so far is really one the money . Thanks again SecSip and sorry for the off topic randomness coco!
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Re: For Pisces, specifically, How long as a pisces will you stick with a relationship before you decide to dump it cuz it's going nowhere ? Mention if you have at least 2 pisces influenced in your ch
Sun, June 28, 2009 - 10:46 AM"poo poo"
Now was there a reason to also txt my phone and and have it charge the bill $1.00+ with the same message when it was posted here as well?
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Re: For Pisces, specifically, How long as a pisces will you stick with a relationship before you decide to dump it cuz it's going nowhere ? Say if U have 2 + in your chart and Define betrayal ~
Sat, June 27, 2009 - 10:43 PM". But when he's betrayed me I mean really really betrayed there's no going back. "
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Re: For Pisces, specifically, How long as a pisces will you stick with a relationship before you decide to dump it cuz it's going nowhere ? Say if U have 2 + in your chart and Define betrayal ~
Sun, June 28, 2009 - 1:21 PMI mean cheating and letting other people into our relationship. I guess I'm possessive but that is something I mention beforehand so there are no surprises there. I want to be the only one in the relationship.
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Re: For Pisces, specifically, How long as a pisces will you stick with a relationship before you decide to dump it cuz it's going nowhere ? Mention if you have at least 2 pisces influenced in your ch
Wed, July 1, 2009 - 12:44 AMok I can seriously attest to being somewhat depressedreading all these replies
lol I know I started it though
Oh the heart of a pisces
It swims the deep dark shores
And yonder in the distance you will hear its muffled cry
O pain O pain
the tender heart decries
Let me swim away to be
My soft self again
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Re: For Pisces, specifically, How long as a pisces will you stick with a relationship before you decide to dump it cuz it's going nowhere ? Mention if you have at least 2 pisces influenced in your ch
Fri, July 3, 2009 - 10:39 AMWhen I was younger (teens to 20s), I would only date for 6 months. Very black and white point of view at that time. I figured, 6 months was long enough, anything beyond required some sort of commitment to one another. Also encouraged other friends to break relationships off to feel the hurt and embrace it, and know someone else would come along. Since my divorce, I've slowly come back full circle to what I knew 20 years ago.
Being extremely loyal to a fault, and to the detriment of trusting my intuition, the marriage relationship lasted 7 years longer than it should have. I had a very strong premonition prior to the first separation that told me what sign to look for that would be a sign of the end. Didnt listen to my own intuition and paid for it.
I now stick with 6 months. And if it didnt work out the first two times, then it probably wont work out a 3rd, 4th, etc time. Meaning if you broke up, got back together, broke up, got back together, and broke up again. But that's an old thought from 20 years ago, which has proven itself to work in my life, but now realize indicates power plays in the relationship and am currently analyzing that.
